"Love is selfish!" haiz......yet again...? -.-
Stephen told me the other night, he has a friend who broke up with his girlfriend because he decided that he don't need someone to love. What's the point when both of them were spending so much time away from each other, doing their own stuff on their own and hardly have the urge to spend time together? They don't seem to be together at all. Even asking for some time together seems to be selfish..(OMG...what's with the world nowadays..?_O.o_)
..and I simply told him.."That is because..that friend of yours was not really in love. They don't really love each other..or meant to be with each other. Look...when you found someone you could truly love for the rest of your life, needless to say..needless to ask, both of you will be willingly..so naturally love to stick together no matter what...just like Honey and Bee. You won't simply let it go..like your friend did."
That's the truth about the power of love. Even when everyone is too busy with work, so much other stuff..and personal things to do..every day...nothing would be too personal that you'd keep from each other..and nothing could keep you from trying to spend every minute possible every day to be with each other or at least send an e.mail..or text a message or do something to understand each others' well being...every day! When two hearts are truly destined to be together, no matter how far they're apart, they will eventually try to work things out and be together..no matter what it takes. Believe me..you'll be amazed..how strong the energy love could bring..when two hearts come together. Nothing seems impossible!
Well, if you look at love as 'selfish', then it would be. Let's talk about what's "personal" since the word is so often mentioned.
When two people are together..married, for example..your personal life doesn't seem to be so personal anymore, doesn't it..? Why is that so..?
One could be complaining.."I have to share my apartment..my bed..I can't put things at places I used to..there goes my favourite TV shows and my nite out with my buddies...! She's taking away almost all my personal time..wants all my attention...even decide which tie I'm gonna' wear to office tomorrow..! OMFG.....!!"
(Ayeayeaye...._:P_)
So..the one who made him suffocated that way is definitely selfish..doesn't she? Or...is he the one being too selfish not to give up something personal of his own..just to make way for something else more meaningful or beautiful? hahaha...! >,<
Got the picture yet? ..not yet...??! haiz... -.-
Well, let's make a 360 degree turn..come back.. and take a look at the exact same situation once again..but just from a slightly different view... ..then one could go all the away flaunting..."She brought so much warmth and joy into the house..she made it a 'home'..! She's the one I'd see myself making sweet love to..every nite...the same brown eyes and sweetest smile I'd wake up to every morning...We'd cuddle together on that couch, watching 'teeveee'^^...having romantic weekend nights together...I enjoyed every moment spent with her...even things that she does..she really have that special 'touch' when she made up my tie for me every workday morning..! Gosh..! ..how did she do that..? Awwwhhh........!"
"Yea..yea...That's only when you're so in love..when the relationship is still new perhaps.."
Uh'uh...!..nay...Please put those negative thoughts away..will'ya... Look...things could only be so beautiful when you have the right kind of mind to create it as beautiful as you want..and enjoy doing it every single day for the rest of your life. You've got to have the right kind of attitude for the right kind of love..! Then..you're ready for love..and ready to love. When one could truly love..then is when the person will naturally become selfless..and true love only comes to those who are selfless..people who are ever sharing..ever caring..and ever loving...
If You Care
Don't you wish upon the stars
don't have to look beyond the sky
they ain't gonna' lead your way.
Don't you dream in the daylight
don't have to moan under the moonlight
they ain't lighting up your days.
Don't you dream and wish and pray
cos' time never meant to stay
never ever stand and stare
if you really mean to care
for that someone waiting there
there's a life to share..
here..
else..
where...
~searching for love~
8th August, 1998
Don't you wish upon the stars
don't have to look beyond the sky
they ain't gonna' lead your way.
Don't you dream in the daylight
don't have to moan under the moonlight
they ain't lighting up your days.
Don't you dream and wish and pray
cos' time never meant to stay
never ever stand and stare
if you really mean to care
for that someone waiting there
there's a life to share..
here..
else..
where...
~searching for love~
8th August, 1998
Yes...search nowhere..just within yourself... What kind of love that you really want? Think about it..! But don't just sit there with your thinking..that might take forever.. Start the right kind of attitude.. for the right kind of love! Start loving..for goodness sake..!
And one more thing.."together"..is also one of the word too often mentioned in this particular page. Why..? Because 'togetherness' is also what it takes to build a strong relationship..be it any relationship. How many times did i mentioned it in this page? Wanna' go start counting?
(giggle...)^^
