A Reason To Love..?

Do you know..?
The 'cancer' in a relationship is being unreasonable.
When I was told that one of my ex wasn't the one for me, I always had my reason to believe...that we were meant to be. I guess, when we love someone, love is all that matters..and nothing else really does.
I could still remember how things could go sour..and all I could hear was only, "If you really love me and wanna' be with me, this is what I am...You wouldn't need me to change."_that's it.. end of conversation.
Well, if it is for the better, and if you do love that someone, why wouldn't you change? Is this only how much you could love?.._and this is only a question no one would even bother to answer.
This is such a common scene in almost any relationship. There is always a reason to love... and not to love.
Many people have been too comfortable with their way of life.. and they'd decide not to change anything. But when we are to live with someone else happily for the rest of our lives, we have to adapt and tolerate to each other's way of thinking and way of life.. And that means..we do have to change, at least a little after all.
If it is for the better, why not?
I've heard someone said, "I've been like this all my life. Even my Mom didn't say anything. Why should you?"
Hahaha...!
Well, honey... First of all, you're not marrying your Mom, don't you..? And please..grow up!
Yup.. Unless you wanna' live alone for the rest of your life.. or... if you could find a chameleon as a life partner, that would be superb! Don't you think? lol.....!
Sigh.....
When you don't love that somene anymore, there are always reasons...reasons not to love..end of story..stop hurting each other..and walk away. But when you do love someone..you'd do anything, even if it's unreasonable. Just like Bryan Adams in his song...

"_you'll do anything

you'll do all the crazy things that you can't explain

...you'll shoot the moon, put out the sun..

...deny the truth_believe a lie

there are times that you'll believe you can really fly

...you'll sacrifice

you'd give it everything you got and you won't think twice

you'll risk it all, no matter what may come..."

Yes...and that is.. "When You Love Someone".
We all live in a world that is full of reasons..and things could get so complicated at times. But in the end, being rational, and the power of love...would knock our heads with answers finally...always.
I believe.. even the most stupborn people do change..because of certain reasons.. People do change..because of love. If it is for the better..and for the happiness of all.. why not? Don't give yourselves too much reasons not to love. The most beautiful things in life can not be seen nor touched..but are felt in the heart. Being able to love could open our hearts to many splendid things in life.. and makes our lives a pleasant journey to walk through.

"Though it could only be obviously seen perhaps

in hundreds of years...

even the rock mountains move

and there are plutonic changes in the whole of the mother earth..

and so..the world map changes.

Therefore..

there aren't anything in the world that couldn't be changed.

It takes energy and effort from within..

..and time will tell.."

-Words of Wisdom-

28th December, 2008